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Like Rembrandt Draperies:
A Portrait of Cathy Tingle
Sypnopsis and Evocative Issues to Discuss
This film tells
the story of Cathy Tingle, a woman who lived with serious cancer (endometrial
cancer and adenocarcinoma) for 10 years. The film provides an intimate
portrait of her encounters with the health care system, her unique approach
to life and death, her relationship with her oncologist, and her community.
Through interviews with Cathy at the end of her life, and interviews with
her oncologist, friends and family, we learn about Cathys choices
to live a simple, rural lifestyle emphasizing family and community, the
use of both biomedical and complementary therapies in caring for her health,
her special relationship with her oncologist and her feelings about dying.
We also see the unique way in which the community participates in her
death and burial. Much of the film focuses on what Cathy needed from healthcare
providers during her odyssey with cancer and how her oncologist cultivated
a partnership and friendship with Cathy as part of her care. Because Cathy
outlived her prognosis by almost 10 years, her experience of "end
of life" care was extensive. This is meant to be an evocative film
raising issues about living with cancer, relationships between patients
and providers, alternative therapies and lifestyles, the meaning of dying
and rituals around death. Evocative aspects of the film include:
Her lifestyle
choices - she lives rurally with very little income and wood heat. She
is a back-to-the-lander type. Family and community are most important
to her.
Her approach to her own health care. Agreed to radiation but not
chemotherapy. Read a lot about her own condition and kept control of it
only came to see her doctor when really sick.
Outlived her prognosis by 8 or 9 years. Attributes it to social
support, use of complementary therapies.
Her doctor as a role model. Emphasizing how much you can learn
from your patients and to not be afraid to be friends with them. Had a
real partnership with Cathy in negotiating care. Responded openly to her
lifestlye.
Difficult interactions with healthcare providers. Describing the
discomfort of having a radiation implant. Describing not being listened
to about treatment desires at the end of her life.
Her obvious physical deterioration over the time of filming. During
the last interview she weighed 81 pounds and commented her skin was like
Rembrandt draperies.
Friends and Cathy talking about her feelings about death. She emphasized
an acceptance of death as a natural part of life.
Very different post-mortem experience. Body was taken back to her
home, women of the community bathed her body, removed colostomy, dressed
her, she was placed in a coffin built by friends, grave dug by men of
the community, everyone assisted in burial. Much more direct interaction
with her dead body than we are used to.
Grief expressed by family and friends after her passing.
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